孩子可以有人杈吗?

决定要离开槟城了,孩子们都很高兴,丝毫不留念半年来新学校的人与事.是福建话先造成的隔膜?再来是学校的发禁和种种教条,让孩子,尤其是大儿,深恶痛绝他的自由被剥夺.这半年来,他都沉默的在学校上课,没有特意疏远同学,但就是活跃不起来.

就如校长说的,不能接受学校的校规,请转校!

老公对这句话很不以为然.他说,就如政治人物说的,土著享有特杈,你们不能接受,请回到你原来的地方!??

是不是要这样说话呢?

回到原点.发禁,每个月突击检查搜身,当众鞭打犯错和带手机来学校的学生的屁股,就能教育好学生?么儿告诉我,校长和数位纪律老师的照片,都被学生放在facebook 上恶搞.这是'暴政'的结果?

适当的纪律对青少年学生是应该的.我也不能接受标新立异的行为,但有限度的自由,如短发不染,眼镜框手表不太过新潮就ok好了.何必连镜框什么颜色什么尺寸都管!唉,孩子可以说说人杈吗?

7 评论:

  1. 黛丝 Says:

    父亲节快乐!

    很多学校也有几样限制,很不满,也无奈。。。。。
    孩子都会怒气冲冲,磨拳擦腿,咬牙切齿,忿忿不平。。。。。

    Posted on June 19, 2009 at 6:50 PM  

    Botak Says:

    孩子當然有人權, 只不過那些所謂教育界人士把學校當軍隊來管. 當然也是我國服從文化的一部分.

    Posted on June 19, 2009 at 9:12 PM  

    薰衣草夫人 Says:

    Haaa?又要搬家?这回又到哪去?希望孩子能找到一个好的学习环境.

    Posted on June 20, 2009 at 12:19 AM  

    kgtewpcc Says:

    Well, My son cut Botak last Monday and surprise whole school. He went to see Head Master to set an appointment, and HM asked him why Botak, answer just feel like it. HM said you known, actually student hair cut although shouldn't be too long, but also shouldn't be too short if according to rules set by Malaysian Education, with a smiling face. My son was taken aback.
    My point here is, leave the school thing to the school, we only guide from our side as parent to our children. School do have their reason and mean to act and protect their interest. Pressure, and all negative feeling to children is a growing process, and if we could guide it correctly to them, it shape a better future to them

    Posted on June 20, 2009 at 7:43 AM  

    晨灵 Says:

    黛丝,
    现在青少年的脾气很敏感,要小心翼翼侍候,苦了爸妈.

    Botak,
    这种服从文化己根深蒂固,只能尽量避免,好好引导安抚家中的孩子.

    夫人,
    是,又要搬家了.我改天可以考虑开一家搬家公司找生活.

    Tan,
    是,只要父母扮演好角色,孩子将能引导至正途.

    Posted on June 21, 2009 at 11:58 AM  

    icafe Says:

    你好!潜水潜到你家来了。
    每个人都有他们的人权,小孩也不例外。
    只是某些执法者滥用权力,
    倒导致许多不必要的冲突。
    悲哀!

    Posted on June 25, 2009 at 11:22 PM  

    thepplway求真 Says:

    可怜的孩子。如果一个孩子受罚仍然不能够感觉是错误,是谁的的错?

    Posted on July 9, 2009 at 2:37 PM